“A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh, but envy makes the bones rot”
~Proverbs 14:30
A Christian brother-friend of mine from years ago often said, “What we all just want is peace.” He was talking about a tranquil heart, for I know of no one who deeply desires to be disturbed. Yet it seems so common.
The root of the Hebrew word translated tranquil is healing.The same root is used, for example, in Isaiah 53:5, “by His wounds we are healed” – the healing (peace-making) power of divine grace. It is also used in Proverbs 4, “Be attentive to my words; incline your ear to my sayings…they are life to those who find them, and healing to all their flesh” (vv.20-22) – the healing properties of divine truth and wisdom. This root word for tranquil is also translated with the words like gentleness, “A gentle tongue is a tree of life” (Proverbs 15:4), and calmness, “Calmness will lay great offenses to rest” (Ecclesiastes 10:4).
A tranquil heart is highly prized. As the seat of desire, ambition, and emotion, it is the place where we can become preoccupied and restless when troubled by frustrated expectations. The word envy is probably best translated passion. A heart not at rest is one that is on high alert to acquire or protect what we think is important to us. We worry for what we expect life should be; we are jealous because someone else is enjoying what we require for our own happiness; we are bitter because someone robbed us of what we deserve; we are discontented when we focus on what we do not have. These troubling things provoke passions of the heart, and that rots the bones. It is dis-ease at the core of one’s life – disordered love (1 John 2:15), and desires at war within us (James 4:1).
I recommend three questions to ask ourselves in our daily self-talk that – when informed by God’s self-disclosure through His Spirit – can move our hearts toward the tranquility that our Father designed and desires for us – the peace of Christ ruling our hearts (Colossians 3:15).
What do I have?
It is the adversary of my soul who compels me to forget whatI do have and focus on what I don’t (and think I should). In Christ I am fully loved and accepted. Having been lavished with the riches of His grace, I have a guaranteed hope and an unfading inheritance. Meanwhile, under the sun, every good gift that comes my way is from the Father because He is good and gives me things to enjoy. But I lose that joy when I allow things (or matters) to define or control me.
What has been entrusted to me?
The only thing that I truly possess is that which cannot be taken away from me – namely, my life in Christ. Everything else is a trust. Time, relationships, material wealth, intellect, pleasures, skills, and adversities are all temporal stewardships – I do not own them and they do not define me. I am, however, called to engage them according to the will (in line with the character and purpose) of the One who does own them and entrusted them to me for a limited time. Ultimately, they are means of knowing Him and making Him known.
What really matters?
A dear brother who had suffered a debilitating stroke discussed his new normal with me as we ate lunch together regularly. At times he struggled with a sense of uselessness. I reminded him that he could still walk with God, love Him, and enjoy Him. Therein he would be successful and impactful for his family. He found encouragement is this truth.
What truly matters in this life is not what we can do or how well we can do it. What is meaningful isthat which answers the question “Why?” With apologies to Benedict Cumberbatch in Sherlock, “What is thepoint of you?” In Christ, you have been reconciled to God in order to relate to Him and to know Him. The more you know Him, the more you will love Him. The more you love Him, the more you will delight in Him. The more you delight in Him, the more you will be satisfied in Him and the more you are satisfied in Him, the more tranquil your heart will be.
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